I know you’re probably excited because there are lonely wives all over the place and you’re probably heard that this is the hottest demographic as far as swinging and online sex is concerned. You have every right to get excited because there are lots of websites that make hooking up with this demographic that easy. Yes, due to the fact that this demographic has been overlooked for so long, there are lots of eager housewives ready to get down and dirty with you.

In many cases, you would feel that you are fishing by spearing fish in a barrel. Well, don’t get too excited. As the old saying goes, “you can take a horse to the water, but you cannot force it to drink”. That’s the bottom line. It’s easy to find the right websites that cater to lonely housewives and guys looking to hook up with them. It’s very easy to find adult dating sites that have a high proportion of married women who cheat. It’s also very easy to get the attention of these women and set up a date. However, once you’re on a date it’s also very easy to drop the ball. If you want to score and you want to score predictably and reliably, pay attention to the following.

Give her the attention she craves

The main reason why people, both men and women, cheat is that they crave attention. That somehow, some way their relationship is not giving them the attention that they feel that they deserve. If you give this person the attention that she craves and make her feel like she’s the center of your world, then it’s very easy to develop emotional intimacy.

Why are we talking about emotional intimacy? Well, let me break this down to you. Cheating is only going to happen if the woman feels that she trusts you. There has to be some level of intimacy as far as your emotions are concerned. I’m not saying that you should lie. I’m not saying that you should put on a show. I’m not saying that at all. What I’m saying is you need to get into the atmosphere that she’s craving. It’s all about her. It’s not about you.

Make her feel that she’s twenty five all over again

A lot of the lonely housewives out there are aged forty and above. You can’t tell by their appearance because a lot of them look like they are in their 20s. Thanks to modern diet as well as surgical enhancements, this is the case. Still, deep down, they feel really old. Deep down, they feel overlooked and neglected. As their husbands are building business empires or exploring new creative terrains, they feel that they are just being put on the sideline. They don’t feel special at all.

Well, when they were 25, it seemed that all guys wanted to bang them. It seemed that all guys were chasing after them. Well, make her feel that she’s that age again. Again, I’m not saying that you should put on an act. Instead, focus on one aspect or a couple of aspects that you see in her personality as well as her physical attributes that you can sincerely get excited about. You have to create this electric environment that reawakens that sense of adventure and sense of possibility deep down in her heart. That’s how you can wake up that wild girl inside that can definitely rock your world.

Focus on your special moments with her

Real intimacy is all about creating a moment. It’s all about how you look at each other. It’s all about the tone of your voice, that special heat that you generate as you brush up against each other while you’re having dinner. It’s all about living in the moment. You have to understand people, whether male or female, feel desperate enough to cheat on people they love because they feel that there are no more special moments in their lives. It’s not uncommon for housewives to ask their husbands for a few precious moments only to have credit cards thrown their way and told to go shopping. How would you feel in that situation? So focus on creating that special moment and really be sincere because, guess what, chances are you’d probably look fondly on those intimate moments as well.